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Karina Anastasia's avatar

This is such a valuable contribution to the conversation. The academy can be a stark and harmful place for women and people of color. I hadn’t thought to view it through Lorde’s self-care, but now I can’t unsee it. The empty preaching of work-life balance when there’s no room for such, or even sending students to counseling to get patched up after being abused by supervisors, aren’t real self-care, they mask the environment’s corrosive aspects. Finding deeper self-care in such spaces is indeed radical.

Courage Kusena's avatar

When I saw the video you referenced, I felt like “finally, people are having this conversation.” I have a lot of ideas about this conversation but one of the very first that comes to mind, as a black African woman, is what is “taking care of myself” when my people are not well? Is it not selfish to be so deeply concerned about the self when my community is not well? This is a concept I’ve come across when reading about mothers in African literature written by the African women. And I deeply resonated with it because of my view on consumerism, not necessarily from my life as an African woman myself. When people talk about “self care” and that “self care” is in the form of a purchased product, I often challenge people to look at the full product line of whatever it is they have purchased. I can guarantee that something in that product has come from the exploitation of another woman of color somewhere across the world. And that should bother us all. That should bother us deeply. But it doesn’t, because inherently “self” is the opposite of a collective and “self” has been marketed to us under the idea of “if you don’t take care of self, how do you pour into another’s glass” but what people don’t seem to realize is in a hyper consumeristic world, the catch is most of us will only ever have enough to only get to the first part of the statement, take care of the self. By the time you’ve done that, you’re in need of more money to survive, so we don’t always get to the “pouring into another’s glass” part.

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